The Perfect Mistress
 I've been into BDSM for many years and, as most lifestyle practitioners, I've had my share of professional sessions. Far from being prostitutes or sleazy sex workers, pro dommes provide an invaluable service to the BDSM community, fulfilling the dreams and relieving the frustrations of many submissive men who would otherwise have a hard time finding a compatible companion. Sure, now and then you meet the occasional bad apple, the "hooker with a whip" types who have no clue to the real meaning of BDSM. Luckily for me, most pro dommes I've met were honest, hard working women who have simply morphed their lifestyle inclination into a way to make a living.
Being a frequent traveler, over the years I've met several pro dommes, both in Europe and the US. I've had good experiences and not-so-good ones. I've played with dommes with whom I instantly felt affinity and with others who couldn't really satisfy my particular desires. And then, for one unforgettable weekend, I met Mistress Shane. Mistress Shane is one of the most famous and well regarded pro dommes in the world, and as such she needs no introduction. Anyone who wants to know more about her, see what she looks like and have a detailed description of her facilities and the services she offers should go visit her website. I have only one word to say to summarize my opinion of her, and that word is: perfect. She's my dream mistress and I'll always have a special place for her in my heart.
What makes her so special? For one thing, her physical appearance is stunning. Long black silky hair, piercing dark eyes, a physically fit and muscular body, two legs to die for, a wonderful porcelain skin, efficient and delicate hands that move like perfect surgical instruments, wonderful feet and a beautifully tattooed back that will have you drool the moment you see her. She's always perfectly attired (her fetish wardrobe must be incredible) and moves with the grace and stylishness of a panther. In other words: a fetishist's dream come true.
As for her style, I'm not into role playing (make-believe stuff like headmistress/pupil, policewoman/thief, nurse/patient) and mental humiliation. I'm more into the physical side of BDSM. Being insulted or verbally humiliated doesn't really work for me. And Mistress Shane's style was a perfect fit for my inclinations. I couldn't have hoped for a better session. Her voice and body language are incredible. Many mistresses are almost completely silent and just bark orders at you, then hit you and torture you like mindless executioners. Others keep talking all the time, either verbally humiliating and teasing their slaves or trying to sound sexy by moaning or announcing what they're doing or about to do, like a sportscaster ("ooh yes, feel my whip, you are my slave, your ass is mine" etc.). Nothing wrong with that but I prefer a subtler style of domination, like Mistress Shane's. She doesn't talk much because she doesn't need to: she gives quick commands in a firm but not forced manner, then simply acts without redundant announcements.
The way she moves and breathes and sometimes laughs or makes noises is enough to convey her appreciation or excitement. Her eyes tell more than a thousand words. I love how she provides eye contact. Eyes are important: when I, the tortured slave, looked up to her, I knew she enjoyed my suffering, while being rewarded by her sometimes sardonic, sometimes compassionate but always mysterious gaze. You can look straight into her eyes and she'll know it isn't an act of defiance but just a silent way to ask for her approval and show that you are ready to take more punishment, to please her and be granted the chance to look into her eyes again.
I also love the way she uses her body in unconventional ways. Sometimes she'll rub her legs against you or slide her fingertips into your mouth, as if she's dipping a wet towel into a desperate man's parched lips, to soothe his thirst. The chance of sucking on her fingers for a few seconds is an incredible reward, even if her other hand is pulling at a nipple clamp and causing excruciating pain at the same time. Or she'll let you put your face against her ass or her armpit. I never felt this act particularly exciting until I met Mistress Shane. The sensation of her armpit on my face and lips was so intense I can't believe it. It was almost a maternal moment. She has a way of torturing you while simultaneously making you feel incredibly relaxed and in peace with yourself with these sudden, intense flashes of sensation that sets her apart from every other domme I've met. Then there's the fact that Mistress Shane really seems to enjoy herself. Most mistresses do the same, but it's almost always an act. You can see they're just going through the motions to "please" their customers. I'm sure that Mistress Shane, being a professional in the best sense of the world, does all she can not to disappoint her customers, but I've felt her participation during the session to be very real. I felt empathy. When during intense moments of pain she said "yes, take it for ME", I believed her. I wanted to withstand more pain because I believed that this would have pleased her.
In short, I believed her to be real. For a few hours, she was my entire world. For the duration of the session I felt like I was her slave and I'd have done everything to keep her attention and earn her approval as a submissive. I was in BDSM heaven. For that short time, I felt was in love with her. A submissive kind of love, but love nevertheless. I would have tried things I'd never considered with other dommes if only she'd proposed, simply because I trusted her judgment and I wanted to please her. I've never tried play piercing or fisting because I'm not sure if I could handle it, but if she'd proposed it I would have said yes. I placed myself completely in her hands and did so happily and with no worries.
I don't think a professional domination session can get better than this. Mistress Shane has a very well equipped dungeon in Antwerp. Come to think of it, though, I don't think she used a lot of equipment on me. Her most dangerous implements were, once again, her fingers. She used them mercilessly on my nipples, which were sore to the point of bleeding for days and days after the session. I'm a real sucker for nipple torture and she brought me to new heights (or depths?) of pain without having to resort to complicated instruments.
Was everything perfect? No, of course. But there wasn't anything wrong with Mistress Shane: my only complaint is that I would have loved our sessions to be longer. I wanted to do more things. I wish I could have felt her smooth skin more often on my body. I wanted to spend more time in her company, even if only to talk or do non BDSM things. Alas, it wasn't possible: reality has a way of interfering with your dreams. But, as far as professional domination goes, Mistress Shane is the best of all possible worlds. If only she didn't live 1000 km away from where I live, I'd visit her as often as I could afford. Like a drug, once you tried her, you can't live without her. And, unlike a drug, she has no harmful side effects. Well, except from some painful marks...
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